Are you sure you're treating people good enough?..
February 11, 2013
It's been a while since my
last post and being sincerely, since my last post
everything just got worse and I learned some new things.And I'd like to share that with you!
Well, since everything was getting worse and I had so much problems that I couldn't beat I just decided to ask for help. Ask for help because I was / am weak. It's kinda funny because I just saw the difference about those who really love me and those who just pretend to. Well, it's pretty awkward but those who I never thought that would help me and I felt like I'd be a burden were the ones who helped me pretty much and the ones who gave me strength! They gave me that great warmth feeling inside that they care and even if they couldn't understand me completely, because I wasn't able to explain the whole thing. And there were the other ones, the ones who I really love/d from the bottom of the heart and tough they'd be the ones who will understand me even if I can't explain, because of the pain. But I was wrong, so wrong... Those were the ones who gave their f****** comments, started judging and insulted me indirectly ( I don't think they even noticed it). For example, saying that I'm playing the victim and that I think I'm the only one who have problems in this world and that I'm such an ungrateful kid, ect. Seriously, you must be kidding, right?! I do that much for you and try to help you in every situation and I'm the one who's thinking that she's the only one who has problems in this world?! I'm not going to tell everything she said, but the only thing I can tell you is that she made everything worse than it was. I was just trying to get some help and ye see what I got. One of the reasons why I don't like to open myself. You never know how the person is going to react. You never know if it's worth trying it. You never know if that person is even going to help you a little bit. For example, I'm someone who needs a wise, calm and understandingly person. Because I think; If you don't understand me even a little bit, how are you going to help me? Everyone is different, some people just need a hug, some need warmth and love and some need wisdom and comprehension and I'm the last one. Another thing is that so many people don't understand is how someone is truthfully feeling inside when he/ she has some depressive problems. I'm not going to define what depression is and how it works, but everyone needs to know that those people are weak, really weak. And that's why you must be careful on how you treat them. Did you ever heard the saying "Words are like bullets and they can kill good as any gun."?
Watch out what you say and how do you say it. This doesn't only count for beloved or friends, it's for everyone. Don't be harsh on people you don't know that good, maybe they're having such a difficult time. Be a good example for everyone and don't only help or be polite those who really need it. For example; there's a girl in your class who you don't like let's say you hate her from the bottom of your heart. Even her personality sucks! You have conflicts with her every single day because of some little reasons.
Watch out what you say and how do you say it. This doesn't only count for beloved or friends, it's for everyone. Don't be harsh on people you don't know that good, maybe they're having such a difficult time. Be a good example for everyone and don't only help or be polite those who really need it. For example; there's a girl in your class who you don't like let's say you hate her from the bottom of your heart. Even her personality sucks! You have conflicts with her every single day because of some little reasons.
What would you do? Will you keeping on hating her or will you try to calm down and explain her what she has made wrong?
Well, I'd try to explain calmly that girl what she has made wrong. Why? Because as a human it is your mission (task) to correct what's wrong not make it worse. This year I'm trying to be a better human to everyone; friends, family and enemies. To be honest it's hard to treat your enemies well, but if you do it for a while, you can see the effect. I tried it with some of them and even if I always had to hold back myself, it was every single minute worth. I'm still learning and I'm seeing some of them have even changed into the positive side. To explain everything shorter; just try to give your best to people, it isn't about being nice the whole time, faking your smile and helping everyone except yourself!
Just be careful with the words you use and how you treat them!
Just be careful with the words you use and how you treat them!
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This is just a nice and inspiring post! Words can sometimes be hurtful if they are used in the wrong way. I caught myself saying hurtful things before thinking and I just feel so bad and guilty. ^__^
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